Do you think that men always straightforward and honest with their intentions? And that they are never manipulative? The rules you put in controls so that you can weed men who are bad apples. There are many great people out there, but there are also some that are not worth your time – especially not worth your emotional investment.

Sure, the rules themselves can be abused and played manipulative. But everyone can the system into something that it should not be misunderstood.

I am from a wonderful man now. I have many of the rules on him, without even the intention to! The essence of this book can be divided into a stop, ‘so hard. You can not “make” a guy like you, and you’ll be hurt just to try yourself.

Many women say, “Oh, but you should just be yourself.” Fine. You should “Be yourself” in an interview too, but there are some aspects of your personality that you present a different potential employers. It’s the same with a potential mate in the early stages of dating. You are not deceptive or manipulative. You are too cautious and prudent.

Make intelligent decisions. Read this book.
Rating: 5.5

The saddest thing is that most of you are wonderful women who are just far too influenced by the lamentations of the other females instead of listening to your own heart. Guys are not all idiots when it comes to spotting this kind of behavior. . .

Sure, these “rules” will work Absolutley the most time. . . but only the guys who really are emotionally closed off or are just too flat work only.

Most of us figured out a long time ago that authenticity is the only way to start a relationship, and we have a great “hot buttons” that have pushed to get the first sign of tampering will be female, (she intentionally or not). . . and while some men (like me) run at the first sign of this. . . Many of my friends is simply telling the women in the category of “players”. . . “Girl” that can be fun to hang out, date and bed, but they will not always be “The One” will be. . . Fortunately, sometimes they are long enough to really show some authentic humanity. . . and in this case, most of us guys evaluate “new” and tell us. . . “Making Hmmm, maybe we can make a profound and lasting here …”< br />
A woman, her own person, independent, with their own ideas and interests (but not take these characteristics, such as chips on their shoulders (this is just another form of “posing” If you ask me)) is what most of us want. . .

I hope this helps rant in any way (if you are offended in any way by my words can, you know, there is no anger in this, the only hope for clarity ). I am sure that these authors meant well when these “rules” wrote, but this is terrible advice to follow, no less than boys of “The Low End of male emotional and intellectual range to win.” . . in some ways, if, I would recommend this book. . . If you can read and see the falsity in most of the “tricks” that are taught and you analyze the best way not to be so, it can be very helpful.

; Please. . . . just watch out for you, be brave, you emphasize your strengths and legally deal with your weaknesses and you will be a wonderful, happy, interesting woman. . . and none of us can resist pull-ankle guys a happy, confident woman!
Rating: 5.1

The whole time I was wondering why on earth guys started to think I would be interesting, fascinating, wonderful, irreplaceable woman at that time a total of 180, and here in this book everything lined for me. I began to – bold, feisty, me interesting – and as I turned to taste a guy, I lose myself completely in the relationship that would lead to him losing interest in me. I was no more, I was shell of a doormat to me.

I was real moments in this final relationship, identify where his interest in me started slipping – and it was all the things I did warn that the rules.

Granted, this book does not have all the answers – for example, I would imagine that you say, someone who so many times, that “I have plans” or “I’m so busy,” without a single detail about what you do before you’re a liar or a manipulative cow think. The book does not go into what to say when they go “ask Doing what?”. And it does not apply to mobile phone / SMS / Social Networking order.

But many women is to teach them to be polite, and their friends. We should not want to break with friends or avoid weekend plans in the hope that the man will call at the last minute. We should not sit by the phone waiting to pick up after half a ring. We should resist the temptation to find excuses to call, and the temptation to bend over backwards for him, without the same treatment in return. We should expect, romantic and thoughtful gifts – measured by cost, not by cost – of someone who loves us. We have to our own lives, our own interests, we think we evaluated whether or not a fellow feeling. We should keep our emotional distance until we are sure, rather than a friend to a pro bono therapist. . . or we turn into wrecks on a short-term relationship.

So, kudos to this book. As of now I am testing the rules (or at least my version of it – I’m not a man hunter, I just want a fulfilling relationship if I have one) with two different guys’m interested. Even if it does not work with any of them, I know how to avoid bad practices that this book pointed out I had, and I hope it makes me a better potential girlfriend.
Rating: 5.5